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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby Thanatopsis » Mon Jul 15, 2002 9:58 pm

Add me to the list.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby WebWarlock » Tue Jul 16, 2002 4:50 am

chelehel,

That was a bit more than 2cents! ;)

I am familiar with PFLAG and I do think they are a worthwhile organization.

But The Trevor Project has me intrigued. It looks very promising and it deals directly with gay and lesbian youth. I read thier website and it looks really good. It has a lot of positive things about it.
Here is the link again, www.thetrevorproject.org/

The fact that it helps kids is a huge plus in my book. They run a help line, but I would also like to see what else they might do. Still reading.

Any ohters would also be good.

Warlock
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby AutumnT » Tue Jul 16, 2002 5:53 am

The Trevor Project is a pretty cool choice in my book. They hold an annual fundraiser around Christmas every year called "Cracked Christmas" for that charity that stars like Gillian Anderson, Kathy Najimy, and Drew Carey usually participate in. Jodie Foster is very involved with this charity as well. She worked on an Oscar nominated short documentary about Trevor a couple of years back.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby Lindy » Tue Jul 16, 2002 6:08 am

I love this idea and I like everybody's ideas so far :)

However, me being broke, I don't think I can contribute anything in the near future. :(

Damn money issues, really.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby WebWarlock » Tue Jul 16, 2002 7:09 am

Not to pick on you at all Lindy....;)

But those that don't have the cash to give (and I totally understand that!) can help in many other ways.

We still need to find our charity and we need to figure out what that charity needs, and who to contact. Plus a check into the background of any place would be a good idea.
I mena we have the potential here to give away a lot of money, I want to be more than 100% certain that they are on the up-and-up.

So anyone who does not have any money right now. Could you Google search PFLAG and the Trevor one. See what you can find out and report back to us. If you find something else, another charity then let us know!

There are lots of things to do, this is a big job, and not all of them need money.

Warlock
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby feena191 » Tue Jul 16, 2002 8:12 am

It would be good if we could donate to a smaller charity, where what we give can make a real difference rather than get swallowed up in huge national donations.

The Trever charity does sound good for the reasons already mentioned, but also looking at it from another point of view - it's not 'cynical' but I can't think of the word I mean - if we use a local LA charity & make sure of local publicity, it's more likely that Joss & ME would hear about it. I'm assuming ME is an LA company?

[b:188410d516] edited to add - maybe '[i:188410d516] devious[/i:188410d516]'??[/b:188410d516]
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby xita » Tue Jul 16, 2002 8:40 am

The Trevor Project is intriguing. I would like to know what other things besides the film and the hotline they are working on. But it does sound like the kind of thing that suits us, it is for teens and does focus on the power media can have on society. And yes being based in LA it has its benefits.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby WebWarlock » Tue Jul 16, 2002 8:41 am

I am cool with devious. ;)

ME is in Santa Barbara, CA.

The Trevor Project seems to be in LA.

Sounds like the same place to me, but then again I am in Chicago, everything on the West Coast is the same place to me.

Warlock.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby AutumnT » Tue Jul 16, 2002 9:02 am

[quote:47095df77b][b:47095df77b][i:47095df77b]Quote:[/i:47095df77b][/b:47095df77b]
ME is in Santa Barbara, CA.
[/quote:47095df77b] No, they are in Santa Monica. Which is basically a suburb in the L.A. area.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby roamin » Tue Jul 16, 2002 9:08 am

The Trevor Project sounds good to me. I really think that a group that focuses on teens is ideal as they are the group that benefited the most from Willow / Tara and are hurt the most by their loss.
In Seattle there is the Lambert House which is a drop - in center for GLBT youth, it too is a great org and was featured in a recent article in the Advocate. The downside of course is that it isn't in the LA area.

here is a link to their website
www.lamberthouse.org/
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby Mike of the Nancy Tribe » Tue Jul 16, 2002 9:27 am

I'd be delighted to be counted in on this project. Money I've got, so I'd be happy to give whatever's needed. I know nothing about relevant charities over there in the US, so I'll happily abide by the board's decision as to which one(s) to donate to. Of course what I'd really [i:3dde4224f2]love[/i:3dde4224f2] to see is the establishment of our own charity, maybe the Willow & Tara Foundation, dedicated to the aid and protection of gay and lesbian youth (with Aly and Amber as patrons!)
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby kpmuse » Tue Jul 16, 2002 9:34 am

This Trevor Project sounds really good so far.
It would be interesting to know if any of the teens in the Trevor Project were Willow & Tara fans. Does anyone know if they provide actual counseling or strictly suicide hotline? Wow, after reading more this is such a wonderful cause.

I just noticed this from the Trevor Website:
[quote:2fa3a2ddda][b:2fa3a2ddda][i:2fa3a2ddda]Quote:[/i:2fa3a2ddda][/b:2fa3a2ddda]
The Trevor Project was established by the creators of TREVOR. They are producer Randy Stone, producer/director Peggy Rajski, and writer James Lecesne.

Producer [b:2fa3a2ddda] Randy Stone[/b:2fa3a2ddda] is an Emmy Award-winning casting director, whose credits include "The X-Files" and "Say Anything." He also developed and executive produced "Little Man Tate." [b:2fa3a2ddda] He is currently the senior vice president of talent and casting at 20th Century Fox Television.[/b:2fa3a2ddda]
[/quote:2fa3a2ddda]

Would this be the same 20th Century Fox That Owns Buffy the Vampire Slayer? Hmmm...maybe we could create some kind of connection within with someone who understands.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby WebWarlock » Tue Jul 16, 2002 9:40 am

I am glad that this is taking off so well!

The Trevor Project does look good. But, and speaking as some one that has work suicide hot lines before, they can't release anything about minors and I am sure they are doubly safe with their information here.

Mike: The Willow and Tara foundation sounds really nice, but that is more than a full time job. Let's see how well this one goes first! ;)

If you have not, go check out the Trevor Project.
We are still open to any other ideas.

This is a chance to do some real good for a population that could use some good.

I don't know about you all, but I am excited.

Warlock
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby Tulipp » Tue Jul 16, 2002 4:18 pm

I would very much like to contribute to this, whether the decision is to go with the Trevor Project or with another charity. What a good idea.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby relativegirl » Tue Jul 16, 2002 4:42 pm

Life is so weird sometimes. Coincidentally, 20th Century Fox Studios is hosting a "soiree" this weekend for another non-profit organization focusing on teenagers who have been victimized by domestic violence and I'm told that Randy Stone was one of the Fox liasons who helped coordinate the event with the charity. I'm going to this event and perhaps I could use the opportunity to do some word-of-mouth research about the Trevor Project and if possible talk to Randy Stone about it.

So what, specifically, would people like me to ask about? If anyone would rather email me with specific questions or areas of concern, feel free, just make sure you send the email before noon Pacific Standard Time on Sunday 7/21.

Actually, I know a lot of people in the non-profit world here in LA, so I'm sure I can ask around about the Trevor Project after Sunday, just let me know what y'all are most concerned about knowing.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby WebWarlock » Tue Jul 16, 2002 5:02 pm

The basics really at this point, both for the Trevor Project and any others.

- What do they do?
- How is the money used?
- What is their reputation?
- What is their goal when helping this population.

That is a good start and all of that can be asked really up front. My experiences with non-profits is they love to tell you everything.

Like Xita, I am curious about others as well. Not to dismiss the Trevor Project at all, but I like to be informed about all the possibilities.

Warlock
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby eccentrictulip » Tue Jul 16, 2002 5:34 pm

count me in--this is a great idea. cheers, xita!!
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby dulcinea » Tue Jul 16, 2002 6:25 pm

great idea, I'm always willing to throw my money (or rather my credit card) towards a good cause...
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby GiveMeChocolate » Tue Jul 16, 2002 9:20 pm

Whatever you guys decide I'm in, it's a marvelous idea.
I already have both Nochex and Pay Pal accounts, hopefully that's still an option?
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby BytrSuite » Tue Jul 16, 2002 10:38 pm

Yes, this is an excellent idea. So far I'm liking the Trevor Project suggestion, but I want to see what info relativegirl comes back with.

:grin I love this place.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby tommo » Tue Jul 16, 2002 10:47 pm

Wow, I think this is just wonderful. I'm totally behind the Trevor Project; helping gay youth is essential at this point. I'd hate for anyone to grow up thinking that what happened to Willow and Tara is acceptable and normal.

Relativegirl; sounds like you've got a head start on getting us all involved in this organisation. Thanks. :)
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby tiyodragon » Wed Jul 17, 2002 4:19 am

Count me in.

I think this is a great idea.(Trevor)

Merchandise or an auction also sounds promising.

The kittens have a way to be heard.

tiyodragon
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby La » Wed Jul 17, 2002 5:23 am

just wanted to say again how much i like this idea. reading the website for the trevor project is making me feel really really positive about being able to help and do something in willow and tara's names. i'm so glad we're going to be doing this.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby Kieli » Wed Jul 17, 2002 6:54 am

Hmm...this sounds like an excellent idea. I have a few BTVS items that I have to put up for auction if you decide that is the way to go as well. Just let me know where to send money and I will happily oblige.

Toni
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby relativegirl » Wed Jul 17, 2002 4:11 pm

I started doing some research on the Trevor Project today. I got ahold of their Federal rax returns for 1998, 1999 & 2000 which are really helpful for analyzing how much money comes in the door and exactly how it is spent. The returns are incredibly detailed, for example I can tell you the very fascinating fun fact that they spent $1,156 on xerox charges in 2000. Because they are so detailed, it is going to take me some time to plow through them and I hope to post a some sort of analysis about the organization on Friday evening/Saturday morning (don't worry, I won't bog us down in with excessive details, I just thought it was kinda cute that they broke out the xerox charges as a separate line item).

My initial impression is very favorable. In 2000 their total contributions were only $130,000 which means that a $1,500 contribution from us would be significant. During the same year their administrative expenses were only $8,000 which, in my experience from working with non-profit organizations, is very low -- only 6% of their contributions.

I'm still not entirely clear on what they do specifically and I think it would be great if a kitten were to contact them by phone or email and ask some questions. On Sunday I will do my best to track down Randy Stone and ask as many questions as possible, but it would be interesting to compare what I am told in a face to face conversation with what people contacting the organization directly are told.

It's almost impossible to do any meaningful analysis of an organization if you only look at one. I think we need to investigate some others to help us hone in on what is most important to us. For example, doing my research today I realized that my ideal organization might be one that runs a community center for GLBTQ teens because that is a service that is more sharply targeted to gay teens than an organization that provides educational programs about GLBTQ issues which are targeted to all the kids regardless of orientation. By that I mean that a donation to such a community center is clearly going to assist a gay teenager b/c the sad truth is it is unlikely that straight teens are going to want to be seen hanging out at a gay teen center. Just my opinion and just a slight preference of mine between two very worth types of organizations.

I ran some searches in a non-profit database which I have access to and found another organization that I had never heard of: [b:947de89b7f] GLSEN, INC. [/b:947de89b7f] This is there mission statement for their LA chapter: [quote:947de89b7f][b:947de89b7f][i:947de89b7f]Quote:[/i:947de89b7f][/b:947de89b7f]
GLSEN/LA provides support to high school gay-straight alliances, produces annual conferences for the education community, creates and distributes curricular material for the classroom and helps instigate state and local public policy initiatives aimed at ending anti-gay bias in schools
[/quote:947de89b7f] I think the LA chapter's website is still under construction, but here is the link to the national website: www.glsen.org/templates/index.html

There is, or at least was, a theater company here in LA called [b:947de89b7f] Fringe Benefits[/b:947de89b7f] that went to schools and gave innoculations against homophobia, or something that they described like that, which consisted of putting on plays and programs for the students about being gay both from the perspective of "what if you're not gay" and "what if you are gay". For example, I think the "what if you're gay" type plays were designed to teach kids skills for dealing with homophobic name calling, being jumped, things like that. I think the name of the program was Cootie Shots are something like that. I heard about when a bunch of parents sued the school district for letting the students see the plays :rolleyes . I done some searching on the web but can't seem to locate a site aobut them, but then surfing the web is hardly my forte. If any kitten is interested, maybe they could see if they could locate this theatre company on the web and investigate them.

Another organization that might be worth investigating is [b:947de89b7f] The LA Gay & Lesbian Center[/b:947de89b7f]. I know they have a youth services program, but I'm clueless about what they actually do. The link to their site is: www.laglc.org/section03/index.html If anyone wants to investigate other GLBT community centers, here is the link to the national directory: www.lgbtcenters.org/home.htm If there are kittens who want to donate things other than money, maybe these community centers would be someplace they could do that.

The other thought I had is maybe someone can check out the [b:947de89b7f] Cool Page for Gay Teens[/b:947de89b7f] and see what charities/organizations that page has links to. It's located at: www.bidstrup.com/cool.htm I think it has some links to international organizations which might be kinda cool b/c kittens in other countries might prefer contributing to an organization closer to their homes as opposed to an LA-based organization.

I should be able to access the tax returns of any US non-profit that receives more than $25,000 / year and I would be happy to investigate any other groups we may be interested in. Unfortunately, my work just doesn't leave me with much spare time to do general research on any of these other organizations or time to find other worthy groups, so I was hopeful that there may be some kittens with more of an opportunity to research these organizations and see if they might be something we would be interested in.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby Wiccagrrl313 » Wed Jul 17, 2002 4:32 pm

Thanks so much for the info, Relativegirl.
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby La » Wed Jul 17, 2002 5:01 pm

[b:07c866bef2] relativegirl[/b:07c866bef2], you rock.
La
 


Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby chelehel74 » Wed Jul 17, 2002 5:09 pm

As someone in the NY theatre industry who has come in contact with supporters of the Trevor Project I can tell you from their experiences it's a very worthy cause. And many celebrities who are very careful with their charity endorsements are backers and have nothing but wonderful things to say about what they have been able to do.

I think from a "helping teens" stand point it has strong ties to all that we've been talking about on these boards. And seems like an organization that may have heard from their "clients" the impact that the lose of a character like Tara meant to them.

Also from the early research that relativegirl has so graciously completed they seem to be a group that would appreciate what could be in the neighborhood of 7% of the yearly spending.

From an industry standpoint I think helping out an organization with such strong 20th Century ties is a BIG GIANT BONUS! This donation should come from the caring place we all intend it to come from but if we are able to get some media/industry visability then all the better for future characters like Tara. (And with the Amber back for eps next season post on Tvguide online - who knows)

I guess if the kittens can come to an agreement I wonder if at the event this weekend relativegirl can speak with Mr. Stone and explain our idea. Not only the donation but the why behind it and he might be of help in guiding us with contact info etc.

It just seems to perfect that relativegirl is going to be at an event this weekend where he is helping to coordinate.

Seems like some Fantastico Fate to me.

Do we think we could agree either way if Trevor Project is the cause of choice by the 20th gang?
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby WebWarlock » Thu Jul 18, 2002 7:20 am

relativegirl you do rock!

I am going to look at the others you suggested, but I have the admit the Trevor Project is really beginning to shine in my eyes!

chelehel74, the 20th might be a tad too early, but certainly next week we could all come to some sort of decision.

I'll leave that in the hands of our Fearless Leader! ;)

Once we get one then we can start writting checks and sending in those Pay Pal donations. I am looking into sending money internationally for our world wide Kitties out there. Sending money overseas is just really expensive.

Warlock
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Donation to Charity in the name of Willow and Tara

Postby Willowlicious » Thu Jul 18, 2002 8:57 am

I just wanted to say that I, too, think this is a fantastic idea! The Trevor Project does sound very interesting to me, but whatever we choose is cool.

People have mentioned doing a press release when we donate and I just wanted to say...YES! A carefully written press release will point attention to whatever charity we choose, the legacy of Willow and Tara, and, bonus, our objections to the offensive manner of Tara's death. A smiley, happy press release will sneak our point of view (and a link to the FAQ or whatever) into all kinds of new places. The charity gets money and publicity and we get the joy of helping others...and publicity. :) It's a win-win.

Hint: the more money we raise, the more the press will notice.

Great idea all.

Amy
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